"Committing to row for Dave O’Neil at Texas, I knew it would be challenging—and it should be at such a competitive level. I value “tough love” coaching, which builds strong athletes and well-rounded individuals. However, HE lacks empathy and prioritizes the team’s reputation above all else. While I don’t expect coaches to mediate team drama, I do believe in equal respect for every athlete. Unfortunately, this was not the case. HE allowed an entire class to bully their teammate, ignoring her perspective for 313 days until university leadership and lawyers forced his involvement. When asked how he’d feel if it were his own daughter being mistreated by teammates and coaches, HE admitted HE wouldn’t be happy. Yet, HE still failed to act until pressured. The treatment of myself and others was incomprehensible. Over half of an entire recruiting class quit due to mental health struggles or a loss of love for the sport, issues that HE caused or exacerbated. HE stripped me of my love for rowing for a long time. While I’ve regained much of it, it will never be the same. If you’re seeking a coach who upholds the Texas Student Athlete Code of Conduct and fosters respect, this is not the coach for you. The Texas Student Athlete Code of Conduct: Sportsmanship: “Student Athletes must conduct themselves in a distinguished manner and exhibit respect and courtesy toward teammates, opponents, coaches, staff, officials, and spectators.” To submit this review, I am required to give at least one star; however, I want to make it clear that this star is solely dedicated to the teammates who had the courage to come forward and apologize for being manipulated into bullying their teammate. These same individuals were also mistreated by this rowing program and Dave O’Neil, but their stories are not mine to tell. This star for the family we’ve built by persevering together and rising above it all. "

"He bullies athletes but creates a good team culture out of the team thinking he’s an asshole"