"My experience with Tim Horsmon was defined by hypocrisy, favoritism, and a complete disregard for athletes who did not immediately serve his pursuit of winning. Although he presents himself as a leader invested in his players, his actions consistently contradict that image. In reality, the program operates on fear, favoritism, and silence, with athletes valued only for what they can immediately produce. Favoritism is not subtle—it is blatant. Certain players are protected, excused, and given unlimited chances regardless of performance or character, while others are treated as expendable from the start. If you are deemed a “favorite,” mistakes are ignored, effort is assumed, and opportunities are endless. If you are not, you are treated as irrelevant from the start. Your work does not matter, your improvement goes unnoticed, and your presence feels tolerated at best. Respect is not earned through effort or consistency; it is selectively granted based on personal preference. This creates a toxic environment where players are constantly walking on eggshells, competing not just for playing time, but for basic respect. One of the most frustrating aspects of his coaching is how little actual coaching he does. Despite holding the title of head coach, he does very little actual coaching. The assistant coaches carry the entire program—running practices, giving instruction, correcting mistakes, and doing the real developmental work. Meanwhile, he stands in the gym for hours with his arms crossed, planted behind a box, silently judging every rep. He offers no guidance, no feedback, and no solutions. Athletes are left to perform under constant scrutiny without ever being taught how to improve. His presence is not motivating—it is oppressive. Any sign of weakness, whether mental or physical, is treated as unforgivable. Injuries, confidence issues, or mental health struggles are not met with understanding, but with immediate loss of trust. It’s viewed as if you’re weak. Once you show vulnerability, you are labeled a liability and never truly given another opportunity. Instead of developing resilient athletes, this mindset encourages players to hide pain, suppress emotions, suffer in silence, and pretend to be fine, all out of fear of being permanently labeled and sidelined. Perhaps the most damaging aspect of his leadership is how convincingly he sells a dream. He talks about building relationships and supporting athletes beyond the sport, but the second winning is at risk, every promise disappears. Players become tools, and if sacrificing someone helps him win, he does it without hesitation or remorse. Loyalty flows only one way. His concern for athletes ends where their usefulness does. When confronted, he will apologize—but those apologies are hollow and meaningless. They are not followed by reflection or change. The same behaviors repeat over and over, proving that the apologies exist only to quiet frustration and deflect criticism, not to take accountability. Over time, this pattern destroys trust and confirms that nothing he says should be taken seriously. More often than not, athletes feel manipulated rather than supported. Tim Horsmon may produce wins, but he does so by creating a culture of fear, silence, and physical and emotional exhaustion. Athletes are not coached—they are judged. They are not supported—they are tolerated until they are no longer useful. A true leader teaches, communicates, and invests in people. This coach does none of those things. He watches, decides, and discards."

"This coach presents the program as competitive and blue collar during recruiting, but the reality can feel very different depending on how he sees you. He’s a good speaker and will sell you the dream. You want to win? He’ll push you nonstop and won’t sugarcoat a thing. But if that pressure breaks you, physically or mentally, you may be left on your own. He can coach, but don’t expect him to teach. Most of the real development comes from the assistant coaches. They’re the ones who give you actual feedback—the “how” and “why” behind what you’re doing—not just surface-level corrections. If you’re not one of his favorites, or if you struggle mentally, physically, or performance-wise, you may find yourself sidelined without real support. Development and consistent feedback are limited unless you fit a specific mold or you’re a favorite. Coach’s moods also dictated the entire practice. There were times upperclassmen would literally warn us if he came in a bad mood because it would completely affect how the rest of practice went. If you’re already in the program and looking for a sign…This is it. If you’re not “his type” of player, you’ll feel it immediately. If you question whether you think he likes you, he doesn’t. He’ll give attention to others in your position and you’ll be left out of the conversation. You won’t get consistent reps on the ‘A’ side. Your good moments will go unnoticed. You might get replaced by either a practice player, another player in your position, or be reduced to serving only. You’ll know.. Don’t convince yourself that working harder will fix it—it’ll only break you down faster. He glorifies athletes playing through fractures like it proves “toughness.” But when someone actually does it—plays hurt, pushes through, tries to be that version of “tough”—and they finally break? Suddenly, it’s their fault. No support. No grace. Just blame. And with the relentless year-round schedule, your body won’t get a break—not in-season, not out of it. This program is not worth the physical or mental toll at all. He is not a coach who cares about the growth, health, or humanity of the women on his team. To him, you are a player not a person. You are a statistic that determines whether or not he gets paid. He’s not a coach. He’s a businessman in a whistle."

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