"Coach Decker thinks the game is about her. It's her hair, her strut and her mental health that counts over the mental health of her team. She gives a good speech to get you to join her lair and once you are on her field, she will chip away at your confidence as passive aggressively as possible. She is disorganized, condescending, self important and incompetent. I'm pretty sure her husband is the person giving her ratings of 5 on this site because no one who has ever played for her walks away unscathed. I'm just trying to alert you and save you from complete lacrosse devastation. Xavier is a great school but wait for her to go. Go somewhere where you can get your best D1 lacrosse experience."

"Killed my love for the sport, manipulated me, never wanted to listen to concerns, had a dictator mentality, prided herself in leading with fear, gaslight me, turned away my feelings, accused me of horrible fake scenarios, judged me on a made-up perception of me in her head, egotistical, narcissistic. Worst years of my college experience. "

"This coach is crazy. No one should ever play for her she is the definition of what is wrong in the NCAA in regards the mental health epidemic and is an example of a coach that doesn't care about her players and puts them through emotional, physical, and mental hell. She is manipulative and will gaslight you into thinking you are a terrible person and player. She is an incredible talker and will make you think you are valued and special and you will slowly be torn down by her in indirect ways as soon as you get to campus. Please please do not play for her save yourself it's all lies and she should not be allowed to coach anywhere in the NCAA. I have pages of examples of the terrible things she has done and no player should go through the things she will put you through. She will ruin your lacrosse career and your mental health and you deserve better."

"Pretends she cares but will crush any college athletes plans of having a nice college experience. Sent girls the the hospital for run test, cut girls who spoke up for her teammates, will say you’re a great player then not play you for things you were unaware of, could talk herself out of anything with made up stats and stories, ultimate gaslighter, pretends she knows a lot about lacrosse, got hired at Xavier from Hartford who won 1 game within 4 years, says she cares about mental help, reports students anonymously for mental health reasons for no reasons and pretends she doesn’t know who reported them, assistant coach (who every player adored) was forced out, does not give her players any gear but spends program money going to do home visits, cares more about recruits than players, lies in the recruiting process SIGNIFICANTLY Do not come here."

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